The Holy Rule of Saint Benedict is filled with wisdom and compassion. It is firmly grounded in the precepts of Holy Scripture. However, the closing chapters of The Rulecontain a particularly sweet spirit of tenderness. The lesson that is set before us in this chapter is a lesson of blessing. Perhaps the greatest blessing one can give to another is obedience. Even our Lord said, “If you love me you will obey me.”[1]
Certainly, there are positions of responsibility that require respect and particular obedience. The abbot holds the place of Christ in the community. When he appoints priors and prioresses, they required obedience so they may fulfil their roles of care-giving to the Order. Of course, in matters where orders are given or one is “asked” to do something, all must obey the abbot or one’s immediate superior. However, a great majority of the time, leaders are not giving orders and directions.
Much of the time is spent in simple communion with one another. Here is the place of mutual obedience. From abbot to aspirant, we honor and obey one another. As we order our lives around rhythms of prayer and study, we discover a common routine. So, the brother or sister can ask the abbot to do something and the abbot has a chance to obey. The brother or sister can ask another brother or sister to do something and they have the chance to obey.
We honor others, and ourselves, when we are willing to say “yes” to requests for help. We become more like Christ when we deny ourselves and live generously to the blessing of others. We bring great gifts to the community through obedience. When we humbly consider the welfare of others The Rule is translated to read, “the disturbance is calmed by a blessing.” The Latin actually translates, “the disturbance is healed by a blessing.” May each of us become a healing presence in our congregation.
[1]John 14:15.
