Chapter 30 – Reproving the Young

Taken out of the context of the 6th century, this chapter may appear extreme and without a place in 21st century society. However, Sr. Joan Chittister succinctly applies its principles with such clarity that I have copied her commentary in full. In The Rule of Benedict: A Spirituality for the 21st Century, she writes –

In the early centuries of monasticism, it was not uncommon for people to dedicate their children to religious life at a very early age or, much in the style of later boarding schools, to send them to an abbey for education where they lived like the monastics themselves. The monastery, then, was a family made up of multiple generations. Benedict made provisions for every member of the community. Life in the Benedictine tradition was not a barracks or a prison or an exercise in deindividuation. On the contrary.

In the age of Benedict, however, the corporal punishment of children was a given. It was a given, in fact, in the homes and schools of our own time until, in the late twentieth century, social psychology detected the relationship between violence in society and violence against children. Only in our time has it finally become questionable for a teacher to whip a student or for a parent to spank a child. The question is, then, should this chapter now be discounted in the Rule? Children don’t enter monastic communities anymore and children are no raised in them. The answer is surely no. The real lesson of the chapter is not that young people should be beaten. The continuing value of the chapter is that it reminds us quite graphically that no one approach is equally effective with everyone. No two people are exactly the same. In bringing people to spiritual adulthood we must use every tool that we have: love, listening, counsel, confrontation, prayer that God may intervene where our own efforts are useless, and finally, if all else fails, amputation from the group.

The real point of this and all seven of the preceding chapters of the penal code of the Rule is that Benedictine punishment is always meant to heal, never to destroy; to cure, not to crush.[1]

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[1] Joan Chittister, “The Manner of Reproving the Young,” in The Rule of Benedict: A Spirituality for the 21st Century (New York: Crossroad, 2010), 156-157.

 

Danny Nobles

email: dan@christmission.us. I grew up in rural Alabama, the youngest of six boys. Inheriting values of faith and service to others from my parents. Connie and I met in Kansas. We married and raised two daughters. Today, 43 years later, we live in North Carolina and enjoy 7 grandchildren. Retired from the Army, I entered seminary and earned a PhD, studying the stresses faced by Christian leaders and ways of promoting their wellbeing. Seeking a different path of spiritual growth, I discovered the Order of St. Benedict, and found a community of faithful disciples who seek to be with our Lord more than trying to do Christianity. Sounds strange, doesn’t it? As I learned to pray contemplatively, it was as if my second lung began to breath. My life became less hectic and my soul found peace. To me, monastic spirituality is being with God in community. As we serve others, we realize that God is serving through us. My advice to others - seek to be with God rather than insisting on doing for God. As He fills you with Himself, He will do mighty things around (and sometimes through) you.